I am 32 years old, recently engaged, extremely driven woman. At 32, I own my house, 2 cars and motorcycle (cars and M/C are paid off!). I work for a major insurance company, I'm a DJ/Entertainer, as well as an instructor for my work out studio.

Due to the down turn in the economy, I have lost a considerable amount of income, so depression has set in. Since I am a stress eater, I went nuts. I have gained 40 lbs in 6 months. I finally looked at myself in the mirror and said "this is not me". I have officially made the decision to go back to the person I was...maybe even a few pounds less.

I do not want to be the "fat bride" that every woman dreads. I am getting married in the Virgin Islands and want to look as beautful as the scenery. Right now, I just don't feel that beautiful. I haven't even begun wedding dress shopping because of the weight.

Since I am so determined in every other aspect of my life, I have to be just as driven to loose weight. I AM NOT going to look like this for my own wedding.