Chubby Queen님의 저널, 2014년 02월 25일

Dear Not So Chubby Queen. I see you are getting the same comments as I am getting. It can be demoralizing as we do our level best to get weight off thinking we are doing so well when a so called friend turns up and tells us we are over doing it. With support like that who needs to lose weight huh. Well dear lady in my opinion you are doing just fine and should be congratulated on your achievement. Oh one last thing, you look so beautiful in your photograph. 

Yes, Not So Chubby Queen (lol), you are doing great. I don't know why some people make those comments. Maybe it's jealously! Maybe you look a lot thinner to them but you don't see it yet. Most people mean well. Some are just buttheads and you have to ignore them. I would take "you are disappearing" as a compliment. People should say, "you look great" and be done with it. But sometimes things come out the wrong way. Just keep going because you are doing great. 

Thanks,BWY39 and Suzi161. I have decided to take it all in my stride. I'm nowhere near what I used to be plus it's taken me so long to lose the weight and yet people are behaving as if I am anorexic or something.I'm gonna just ignore them. Onward, I go. 

Hi gal  

Ahahaha I hear that too - B!tch please, I still have +/- 6 to go as well, who are they to tell me how i can or can NOT look. Pffft, I know I still have fat hanging around. Love(hate)handles case and point. Let it go in one ear and out the other. I suppose if it gets too much though, then you should try looking at yourself from another perspective... Not hating, just saying :) Good luck! 

LOL! Trust me,Tamzen. I'm nowhere near where I was pre-baby and they know where I used to be. It's just they didn't expect it to happen. They thought I could not do it despite my efforts. Right now, I have hit a plateau. I can't seem to shift that last 5K so do share if you get it right... 

Hi back at ya,brown eyz... 

I remember you old picture before this one; you were chubby... but now, I really admire your efforts to make it work. You go girl, no one I mean no one should tell you otherwise. We need to take care of our bodies, just like we did when we were at high school. All the best and I am glad you are my buddy! 

Gosh, these 6kg's are going to be the frickin' end of me I tell you. They're shifting nowhere. And it REALLY doesnt help that Easter is around the corner and our house is always full of marshmallow eggs. Sigh. If you however do find that secret weapon to shake it off - please fill me in :D 

You go gal  

Morning guyz me too i am pushing even its not that easy but i think i will push but its going slow . 

I have the same problem. I lost 13.5kg's in almost a year, and I still need to lose at least 12kg's, and some people tell me I can't lose that must weight... Especially when I get close to their size, I get comments like I'm starting to look bony.... Now really, lets just do this and ignore the nay-sayers! 

I've been getting the same thing. It's discouraging when you are so happy about finally losing the weight and people tell you that you look great and not to lose any more. 

Forget other people, do it for yourself. They will still comment even when you've gained. Keep it up 

They are just jealous because you have the will power to complete what you have started, and they don't. Ignore them. 

Forget them, well done on your weightloss 

lol u go girl, just ignore them. congradulation on the achievement, forward iz where ur going